requisite placeholder post for may

hard to believe i’ve been keeping this blog since march 2001. that’s more that 6 years! i’ve fallen off quite a bit in keeping this blog up to date in recent years. Part of it is i just got too hermit-y with my soon-to-be ex-husband; part of it was finding other places to share my thoughts. even now, i’m not sure how much longer this site will be up. it’s overdue for a huuuge redesign, and i’m not sure how much time/energy/interest i have in trying to do that.

in other news, i still can’t believe i’m getting divorced. it hurts so much sometimes, even though i know it’s the best thing for both of us. it’s amazing how much people can hurt each other through carelessness and thoughtlessness, and how much the pain caused from that can fester and burn into your souls.