if you’d asked me a month ago how I felt about a few certain people, you’d get a few cut and dried responses.
on person A: I’m still hung up on him. he doesn’t want a relationship, but I still want something, maybe.
on person B: He’s my friend. We connect pretty well, but I think he has some stuff he needs to work out.
on person C: My gosh, he’s probably my best friend here. This would actually be a good relationship, but i’m just not attracted to him in that way…
but somehow, everything’s different now.
on person A: I’d like to be just friends with him. I’m not attracted to him in the way I was before. I sort of realize now that it was a phase in some ways, and that i’ve outgrown my blind-sighted admiration of this person.
on person B: Ahck! maybe things could work….:)
on person C: Still really comfortable, but things are starting to feel kind of couple-y. this is worrisome because it shouldn’t go that way unless it’s intended…
>_